I love weddings. And it is guaranteed that I WILL cry at them. (I cry at baptisms, too.) True, weddings are a very emotional time for everyone….for the parents of the bride footing the bill, for the mother of the groom losing her BABY, and okay, sure, for the groom, too, but let’s face it: It’s the bride’s show. Months of planning. Meticulous planning, and lists, oh lovely lists….Years of dreaming of this day…oh, don’t tell me you didn’t even a little bit. I remember playing bride with my friend Katie, wearing her mom’s slips on our heads. And to be honest, I wasn’t a *young bride*. After my 30th…